My marriage fell apart, and I was facing the very real possibility of losing access to my children, home, friendships and the business I had work so hard to build.

I could see nothing good coming from that situation - only pain, resentment, shame and loneliness. A life lacking in everything I had previously placed on such a high pedestal. I thought the life I had always wanted was now out of my reach.

For much of my life I had confidence and strong self-belief. I thought I knew who I was and where I was going. I had built businesses from the ground up and achieved success at a young age. I had great relationships, friendships and family. I had built wealth, expanded my family’s business operations and achieved the dream of becoming what others considered “successful”.

Yet, at that point I was hollow. I felt like the shadow of the person I was. Ashamed of the life I lived, the career choices I had made and ultimately the person I had become. I felt that there was something fundamentally and uniquely wrong with me and that if people saw who I really was behind the front I put forward and the costume I wore, they would be horrified.

I was desperately anxious, unable to function and hiding from the world. I couldn’t sleep. I’d lie awake at night, adrenaline flowing and panicking about my situation. I suffered a full nervous breakdown that would take me three months to recover from.

My inner critic was tearing me apart, and most traditional therapists I saw at this point only succeeded in making matters worse. There was a big hill to climb to come back to my old self. I remember thinking that if everything I am being told about myself is true, then there is just too much wrong with me to really fix it all.

All of these thoughts continued to rumble around in my head. I knew enough to know this wasn’t healthy. Then my mentor and friend Baden reminded me:

“Patience brother, patience. There’s nothing wrong with who you are. You have just hidden the real powerful version of you away for too long.”

That was a turning point.

I promised myself then that I was going to turn this situation from the worst into the best thing that had ever happened to me.

Over the next eight months I went on an incredible journey where I completely rebuilt myself. My confidence, resilience, attitude, and attachments. I chose who I wanted to become, and my confidence went from an all-time low to being unbreakable.

Alongside working with my mentor Baden, my good friend and mentor Andrew was coaching me regularly, as was another mentor, Larry.

Each of these men coached me through my separation, taught me to control my mind and worked with me to design a new life of my choosing.

These men showed me the mindsets of the elite. My journey to an unbreakable resilient mind occurred rapidly. Friends and family were in shock.

I had reconnected with my natural confidence and success mindset. The same mindset we all have with in us – including you!

I doesn’t matter who you are, where you are now or where you have come from, all of us have the ability adopt these mindsets and live the life of our dreams.

I dropped all the negative illusions and self-limiting beliefs that kept the real me trapped. All the self-judgement, all the negative self-talk that kept me feeling small and trapped. All the sense that there was something uniquely flawed about me, that I was somehow different or less deserving, just fell away.

Through this process, and thanks to my brilliant mentors, I discovered the blueprint for creating an unbreakable resilience and indestructible self-confidence. The secret to success and the ability to go for everything I wanted in life, without fear or regret.

And I knew that this process was so incredible and powerful that I needed to share it with others.